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About me
36, bisexual, and finally living unapologetically. Iāve loved hard, lived fully, and left behind anything that didnāt serve my growth. Dominant, ambitious, and fiercely independent by day, but at the right moment, I crave someone who can melt my edges, challenge me, and surrender just enough .
Iāve never touched myself. Only dry humped. And to me? Thatās always been enough. My body reacts deeply, so I never felt the need to explore further. Iāve never chased sex. Women and men have always been drawn to me. Not just for lust, but for my aura. My energy speaks louder than my body ever could.
I didnāt fully understand that until a few years ago when I had my awakening.
That moment changed everything. I started loving myself, understanding myself, and now I feel intimacy differently. I havenāt had it in 3 years since losing my fiancĆ©. I shut down emotionally for a long time. But now Iām alive again. Aware. Clear.
For now, Iām not looking for a relationship. Honestly, I donāt even believe in that word the way most people use it anymore, it feels surface level. Labels ruin things. The moment you put a name on it, family and āfriendsā start weighing in, and thatās why I keep who I talk to private. It matters too much to me.
What I do believe in is connection. The kind where you just know each other, no doubts, no games. Where honesty and loyalty donāt need to be questioned because theyāre already there. We move through life side by side, doing as we please, no heartbreak, just flow. And if there comes a time we vibe with another woman, why not explore together, have fun, see where it goes? I know Iām probably one of the last ones who thinks like this, so my odds are trash but at least Iām real about it.
Iām looking for alignment.
If our energies vibe, if youāre grounded, if youāre real and unapologetically you , we might just create a moment worth remembering. Iām not here for games, ego, or flex culture. Material things have never impressed me. Presence does. Soul does. Your bank account doesnāt move me. Your truth does.
Letās keep it authentic. Letās keep it electric. Letās see what flows.
Lifeās too short for surface-level. Iām here for the real, the electric, and the unforgettable.
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